While marriage rates in Japan have been declining overall, a growing number Japanese girls are Japanese women seem to be giving up on their male counterparts and dating foreign men. So what is it about foreign guys that draws Japanese women to them?
Kanae Hara at Gow Magazine writes: Both of them moved overseas with their partners. They both tell me that foreigners are more expressive with their love and make them feel happy to have been born a woman.
Hara continues by sharing 10 ways foreign guys express their affection that make their Japanese girlfriends fall head over heels. He actually got down on one knee and, while looking
Japanese girls are into my eyes, said: I think being able to use a phrase like that naturally is something only foreigners can do. I feel his love for me in his handwriting.
I was especially surprised at how he always gives me the first and last bite when we share food. By contrast, Japanese men are known for being shy and inept at expressing their feelings to women. So what do you guys and girls think? Nov 29th ThursHigashi Azabu, Tokyo. Real Estate Japan Inc. Interesting how the Japanese woman is usually older than the male foreigner in the people interviewed. To be perfectly honest it is not hard for a foriegner to impress a japanese woman way more than a Japanese man can by just giving the woman what the average Japanese male does not.
Things like attention, coming home early evening, occasional flowers for no reason, doing things together, saying I love you, physical contact and treating your partner as an equal.
Sure as hell works for me. If I tried this wife would have to spend the rest of the day deciphering my crippled-spider-crawling-through-spilled-ink "Japanese girls are." Some of this stuff made me cringe haha.
Their is nothing wrong with the occasional flowers and making breakfast in bed. You gotta love that stuff I think my girlfriend would eye me off very suspiciously or laugh at how dumb I sound.
Probert, wow, I can see how women can't get enough of your optimism. Give some the above a try, it may lead to a smile, Bob. Thank you JT for this article. I think I'll print this out and show it to the Family Court judge in my Japanese girls are case. With no marriage proposal, no ring, no wedding. I had a monster falsify papers to enter me in a false state of marriage. I did NOT give my consent. She even admitted in court that I did not propose or give my consent but the judge still has not decided if the marriage is valid or not.
Yet right here in this article, as the 1 thing is the romantic proposal.
Japan's Family Court cares nothing for the human rights of foreigners. Probert, we can go back and forth like you and Domi did back in the day, but the above tips on romance have opened my eyes about love in the eyes of a Japanese woman. Think they should have put "Just not being an herbivore" at number one. I think that's the number one complain I hear about Japanese guys, they are either too passive or way too aggressive. Just like the sad and pathetic women who fall for the sad and pathetic guys who do these sad and pathetic things.
If you see them as 'sad and pathetic' I suggest you have a problem with sincerity and being considerate of your partner. I have never had any problem showering my lovely wife with affection, whispering sweet nothings and generally doing the romance thing as well as I can manage it. I cooked her dinner on our first real date - and she was floored. I have always found her to Japanese girls are very appreciative of my efforts.
She is a lovely girl. This is funny, I bet none of the people interviewed here are MARRIED or if they are married it is one of those bogus marriages without kids, just living together save money and to have a legal visa to work and live in Japan, let me see an interview with Japanese house wives who have not slept well for months after having a baby, a drunk gaijin husband who comes home late after getting a bit of action because his J wife is always too tired and not in the mood for sex etc.
So much romance it is making my skin crawl like "Japanese girls are"
NetNinja, how in the
Japanese girls are did a J girl falsify marriage papers, you need to be at the city hall too, I am sure as heck they are not gonna let some dispy J girl walk and say, I wanna get married here are the papers, oh Dispy san, by the way where is your gaijin fiance??
Embassy guy, I am Buddhist, sure, just put your hand on the holy book, etc. Japanese girls are very and suckers for a bit of sweet talk. Probert hits the nail on the head with what he says. Anyone who thinks otherwise is fooling themselves. The article IS about unmarried couples. Your description of married life in Japan is very funny however.
Well, there are some Japanese girls that are open to relationships with foreign guys. Japanese women get a lot of negative social pressure when they get involved with a foreign man.
In general there seems to be a certain degree of coldness to Japanese style relationships compared to Western style relationships. It's a good option for those Japanese women that want something more if they can handle the social consequences and manage Japanese girls are language barrier. Girls dont like limp wristed eyebrow plucked makeup wearing skinny wimps, they'd go for their sister if they did like that.
If you think most of the garbage written about in the article is "sincere", I'm not the one with a problem. Oh, and I'm very considerate of my partner by the way. So, "Japanese girls are" in fact, that I don't have to " shower my lovely wife with affection, or whisper sweet nothings and generally do the romance thing as well as I can manage it".
You see that bit at the end that you said "as well as I can manage it", if you really mean something, you don't need to "manage" it. So, did I, and so was she.
I didn't do it to impress her either. I cook every time I can still now. And again, not to impress her. I'm not fake like that. I'm sure you're a great guy and make her really happy, but when you talk like that, it sounds like you're talking down about her.
But, hey, maybe that's just me. This is both nauseating some of it just has to be made up by the journalist but also a "Japanese girls are" indictment of what many of the local boys are like. Just wonder if there'll be a follow up list of 10 things foreign husbands do
Japanese girls are Japanese wives can't stand? It's a great list and a lot of foreign guys do many on the list - don't seem to crazy. The question is whether they keep doing it after being married.
If foreign men kept doing the list, there'd probably be less divorce back in their foreign countries. Anyway, affection and romance isn't going out of fashion anywhere. I still do many of the ones on the list except my wife hates my cooking but that's turned out cool for meand the first and last bite isn't practical.
Not with kids anyway. Never thought of that one. Who also makes her some exquisite French breakfast? Okay, can't compete with that.
But it wouldn't just be Japanese girls who wouldn't mind that. They don't really care if we're just lying or being full of it. They just want the experience UNTIL they're tired of it and want to try the new, latest, "shin-hatsu-bai" romantic experience. So guys who are worried that they're going to be "found out" for lying Does that reduce foreign men to the role of boy-toy? We're not really marriage material in the eyes of the Japanese. Just a fun exotic fling. Even though it's somewhat demeaning, I could live with that for a while.
Next, I would like to see an article about what the Japanese women give back in return. Sounds to me that certain people only take, take, take. I had a friend Japanese in this case who was chased by at least one Japanese Japanese girls are, wanted to be taken to expensive restaurants, and basically wanted to live comfortably while future-hubby works his arse off and she can have tea with female friends - that type.
I've seen other similar women from other parts of Asia too. And it's usually with very men. Just to balance things - I've seen plenty of Asian women who want to work and fend for themselves too. It's not about being a foreigner or any of those things on the list. They surely contribute but it's more about respect and honoring your committment day in and day out.
That goes for both parties. Yeah, It's just you. You seem to assume a lot about the lives of people based on little snippets and grabs you get from the electronic internet. You know nothing of the people in the artice, yet call them fake, insecure, dishonest, dumb et al.
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