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June 28th, We get on so well and are such a good happy match! Its the best start to a relationship ive had!! We met on a dating website called plenty of fish. I deleted the app off my phone and my account off the site and she was in mine when she deleted her app.
Anyways i have been at my friends tonight and set him up on plenty of fish because he is recently single and realised she is still using the site! I did a search just out of curiosity!
She has actually even been on today!
She has uploaded new photos that she only took at the weekend and the weekend before. Its not good is it!? I need to have it out with her but would prefer face to face. Im working 3 nights now so it will have to wait if im doing it face to face! I dont want to do it over text, i want to see her reaction and ask her out right does she want to be with me. I actually do know she likes me alot but suppose thats only words she has been saying. She could be feeding me a load of bull!
Im going to feel so "Girlfriend still active on dating site" at work this weekend. Originally posted by jcowap View Post. Life is too short to wake up in the morning with regrets. So, love the people who treat you right, forgive the ones who don't and believe that everything happens for a reason. If you get a chance, take it. If it your life, let it.
Nobody said it would be easy, they just promised it would be worth it. June 29th, Agreed with the above. Talk to her about it, but not in a confrontational way.
Although I had largely forgotten that I'd had them and I was not Girlfriend still active on dating site on them either. But just talk to her. Originally posted by am View Post. I totally understand where your coming from and it does seem sketchy but at the same time you do seem a tad controlling with afew things.
For example the facebook status. My ex and I didnt change our statuses to in a relationship for many months not for any reason but because we hardly got on facebook and when we did it was real fast and just didnt think anything big of it.
Your sounding like you two just got engaged. If you demand all these things at once i wouldnt blame her for leaving. On a different note, the dating site.
It would be understandable if she just forgot about the site and was too busy to delete it but the fact she is updating it is not cool. That is understandable to talk Girlfriend still active on dating site her about but the facebook status and meeting her parents i think your making too big of a deal.
For atleast 6 months you want to be really easy going about things because if you come off controlling or demanding things too soon the relationship has not gone on long enough to make a big fuss breaking up.
If you cant eat it or chew it. Pee on it and walk away". Originally posted by Drewcious View Post. What would you do in my shoes? See what she says to updating her photos, then make a decision based on whats best for you. I wasn't going to be angry with her or anything. I was going to to ask her calmly and see what she said but to me it is big dealso defo want it sorting.
If she agrees to not use it again then I'll see what happens and carry on with the relationship. In my experiance which when a girl keeps a guy a secret its either because she wants to keep her options open and isnt sure if she really wants a serious relationship OR she has someone else on the side or your the other guy on the side. Defenitely something to talk about but just make sure you dont come on too strong unless you have a reason and dont fall for her cutsie comments like "aww im sorry babe i just didnt think to or had time to remove it".
Well that doesnt explain the updated pictures Keep Girlfriend still active on dating site eye for certain gestures that hint lying. Some are, not being able to look you in the eye when usually its not a problem. Playing with hair, some psychologists or FBI techniques say if the look or turn to the left for some reason it indicates lying.
Easiest way is if she does manage to talk her way out of it remember word for word. Ask her again weeks later and see if her story has changed. These are just some tricks ive read or was told by friends that are councelors or work in law enforcement. I dont think im a complete secret becasue we was meant to be going on a night out for her mates birthday and all her mates were going. Me and my girlfriend decideed to book a hotel. In the end her mates didnt go because people kept dropping out so they coudnt afford to venture far.
I would of met her mates then. Her parents are seperated and she told me her dad wants to meet me but then again it could be a lie. She asked why and I said its a long story i'll tell you when I see you over the weekend. She didn't give me an explanation why she was still going on there and i'll ask her again when I see her but shes closed the account now ive checked why would she do that if she wanted to end it?
She has been going through a lot these last few weeks because she has fell pregnant by accident and we agreed to get rid of it. Ive not seen her properly for 3 weeks because i only see her at weekends really Girlfriend still active on dating site something has come up E. G this weekend im on nights, last weekend she was on a hen doo. When i was texting her about her plenty of fish account she told me she had the baby aborted today and didnt tell me because she wanted to do it alone and i would of demanded to go alone which i would - I feel a bit guilty now about bringing it up today!
She said sorry she upset me anyways. Just hope things get back to normal now. June 30th, I think you will find that she just might be emotional and upset as having an abortion is a big deal. If i'm being honest I think you have overreacted to the Plenty of Fish dating stuff. My advice in your situation would be to try not Girlfriend still active on dating site get too serious in relationships and to have fun as I see you're only You should of got your boy to text her and played it out a bit to see if she's really worth the effort.
Girlfriend still active on dating site after someone is in a relationship is a huge red flag to me.
by actively talking to other singles while someone is in an active relationship. And for the guy whose GF is still advertising herself as single, what a slap in the.